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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
- Actress Shin Ee! - Welcome.
- Singer Ben! - Hello.
He's becoming the trot prince. Jin Hae Sung!
(Jin Hae Sung, the trot prince)
Kei and Mi Joo of Lovelyz!
(Kei and Mi Joo of Lovelyz)
(It's nice to meet you.)
- Shin Ee, it's been a long time. - It's been a while.
She's like Queen Seondeok of comedy movies.
- She's a great actress. - She's amazing.
Well, now,
I'm just an old celebrity.
I bet there are a lot of people who don't know me now.
If you put it like that, I'm even older than you.
You've been working in this field without taking a break,
- but I'm starting over now. - You took a break.
I don't know much about stars these days.
So when I asked who else would be on the show,
- I heard a snake would be here. - A snake?
- "There's a snake." - Bam as in snake in Korean?
- You misheard Ben's name? - I'm sorry. Yes, it was Ben.
Shin Ee is a cast member of a family variety show.
I watched the show.
These days, people think of me...
as a filial daughter and a nice person.
Since people started recognizing me, my mom...
must be happy. She called me and said,
"Shin Ee, this is it. Use us, your family, to become successful."
- Your mother said that? - Yes.
- "This is your moment." - Of course.
Parents would do anything for their children.
(All parents are great.)
Meanwhile, he's a rising star of trot,
the prince of trot.
Dong Yeob, finish up the introduction quickly.
Hae Sung seems so nervous.
That's because he hasn't appeared on many variety shows.
Isn't it almost your first time?
Since I mostly appear on music shows for adults...
He speaks dialect properly.
"I mostly appear on music shows for adults."
Since I sing classic trot songs,
my middle-aged fans often give me balloon flower root juice...
- or pear juice. - "Balloon flower root juice".
- "Balloon flower root juice". - "Balloon flower root juice".
I am staying healthy.
For your visit to Hello,
you prepared a special performance.
Today, members of Lovelyz and Ben...
are here as well.
- Watch your pronunciation. - Ben.
- Ben. - I will sing their songs.
You will sing a trot version of their songs.
Which song by Lovelyz will you sing?
"Love, Ing" and "Ah-Choo". "Ah-Choo" and "Love, Ing".
He is playing the guitar.
(Expectant)
(How will he express Lovelyz's cute and cheerful charms?)
(Ah-choo)
(I feel like I am going to sneeze)
(It's a lilting and upbeat version of "Ah-Choo".)
(Dancing)
(Ah-choo)
(Ah-choo, choo)
(Choo, choo)
(This is nice.)
(Everyone dances.)
(It was the best.)
"Love, Ing".
Ben, please sing the original version.
(I am still in love)
It's the most passionate love
(She touches people's hearts with her sorrowful voice.)
She is good.
(A trot version of "Love, Ing")
(Tae Gyun and Yeong Ja are already addicted.)
(Fascinated)
(Singing)
(You don't know this)
(But I am still in love)
(With you)
It was melodious.
- It was amazing. - It really was.
Thank you.
Doesn't his voice melt your heart?
Would you sing the last part, "With you"?
(He sings the part as if he is playing hot and cold.)
It's really addictive.
I know.
Thank you.
- It was upbeat. - Yes.
These days, Ben is really popular.
- Her song moved up the charts. - That's right.
It used to be Yoon Min Soo's song.
Yes. Originally, it's the title song of Vibe's eighth album.
When he was abroad, I sang the song...
and realized that it suits me.
So I stole it.
What did Min Soo say?
Every time he sees me,
he attacks me with what Yoon Hoo said.
"Yoon Hoo asked me if you have gotten..."
- "any taller." - Really?
That's why I run away from Yoon Hoo these days.
He is taller than me.
That's right.
Mi Joo, you and Hyuk Soo started an on-screen marriage.
That's right.
Does he make your heart flutter at times?
- "He is a good man." - Has it ever happened?
- It's entirely possible. - Has it ever happened?
During the shoot,
Hyuk Soo's considerate nature did make my heart flutter.
"Mi Joo, I will do this. Your hands hurt."
Those comments...
make my heart flutter, but I soon come back to my senses.
- I see. - Lovelyz released a new song.
- Please show it to us. - We will do that.
All right.
("Lost N Found" by Lovelyz)
(Today, find me and my confessions of love)
(Lovelyz has fresh and bright charms.)
(You can't help but fall for the addictive melody.)
(They are lovely.)
They are good.
Let's see the worries we have today. Show us the keywords, please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
- "My Daughter, Please." - "I Refuse to Be Filmed."
"Will I Ever Get Married?"
"My Daughter, Please."
Hello, I am a mom in my 50s who lives in Gyeongsan,
North Gyeongsang Province.
My daughter used to be kind and cute,
but she changed so much in a year.
"My daughter, why is it so hard to reach you?"
"I will call you later."
"You said you will call. It has been two days."
"My batteries are running low. I am hanging up."
Since my daughter lives alone near her university,
I want to know how she is doing. However, she doesn't understand.
"Why did you call me when I am drinking?"
"I haven't seen you in a month."
"Gosh, I won't go home. I don't want to see you."
Instead of focusing on her studies, she drinks all the time.
This happened once.
(Is there something more serious?)
"Are you Seo Hye Min's mother?"
"Yes, I am. Who is calling?"
"This is the police."
"Your daughter was in a brawl. Please come to the police station."
(Shocked)
My cute daughter became a troublemaker.
Please help her so that she can change back.
- That's the worry. - My goodness.
(Upset)
Why did she suddenly change?
Everyone has had a dispute with a parent, right?
- I recently had a big fight. - Why?
My mom kept telling me to get married.
I told her that I am not seeing anyone,
but she didn't believe me. She said, "You are lying."
"Isn't it because you look down on men?"
- Look down on men? - I was so upset...
that I tearfully said, "I am really not seeing anyone."
She finally realized I was telling her the truth.
We made up afterward.
Listening to the worry made me think...
there must be something the daughter is stressed about.
Did it bring back old memories?
- Yes, I... - Did you have fights?
- Is that what it is? - It's not like that.
When I was a trainee,
I wanted to tell my mom about my worried.
She thought I was quitting, so she yelled,
"No! You need to persevere!"
- She didn't listen to you. - No.
I didn't want to call her after that.
Let's meet the mother who is struggling...
because of her daughter who made a 180-degree change.
Please come on out.
Please go and help her out.
The pool is deep.
(Kim Sun Yi)
Did you daughter change that much?
Yes. She was a kind and considerate girl...
who bought warm drinks for a grandma who collects waste paper.
She used to get good grades and scholarships.
Ma'am, are you crying already?
We have just gotten started.
- My goodness. - She has pent-up frustration.
- That's right. - She used to be like that.
Then she started to live away from home.
She started changing once she began living alone.
She neither calls me or answers up my calls.
When I ask her what she did,
she tells me to hang up because she drank all night long.
It sounds like she drinks a lot.
Yes. She drinks 4 to 5 bottles of soju every day.
- 4 to 5 bottles of soju? - Soju?
That's a lot.
Doesn't it interfere with her studies?
- I know. - It interferes a lot.
One time, I got a call from her professor.
She told me that my daughter didn't come to school for three weeks.
- Three weeks? - I called her,
but she said, "Hang up. My batteries are running low."
It's a problem that...
- she doesn't attend her lectures. - She needs a new cell phone.
- It's a bit serious. - In the worry you sent,
you talked about the police station. What was that about?
She got into a fight with someone in a drunken state.
That's why the police called me.
When I asked her about it, she said, "I am hanging up. Let's talk later."
"I haven't slept all night, and you are being annoying."
(I am afraid to talk to her now.)
Where does she get the money to drink every day?
Does she work part-time?
No.
- What? - Then what does she do?
She calls her older sisters for allowances.
She has no idea that she spends 2,000 to 3,000 dollars every month.
(She spends 2,000 to 3,000 dollars every month.)
- 2,000 to 3,000 dollars? - How much does she use in a month?
2,000 to 3,000 dollars.
- She is a university student. - Yes.
That's excessive.
Is the family really well-off?
I receive a government stipend. I am on welfare.
She is oblivious to the financial difficulties.
It's really hard on me.
Her behaviors seem to be a bit excessive.
Let's talk to Sun Yi's daughter.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is her youngest daughter who causes troubles?)
Do you agree that you made a 180-degree change?
Yes. I think I changed a lot...
after I turned 20.
I am uncomfortable at home and with my mom.
(She is uncomfortable at home and with her mom.)
- Do you want to be alone? - She's uncomfortable.
I like my friends better.
- My goodness. - Friends are nice.
Why are you uncomfortable with your mom?
If I do something wrong, she should ask me my reasons.
- That's right. - She simply says...
I am in the wrong.
- She does that no matter what. - It makes me mad. I am her child,
- but she never sides with me. - I see.
You want your mom to listen to your story...
and ask why you drink so much.
- Yes. - The thing is,
isn't it understandable for your mom to ask you to drink less...
- since you drink a lot? - That's right. She is worried.
I couldn't drink as a minor.
Now that I am 20 years old, I can drink.
- You couldn't drink as a minor. - No.
- All right. - But...
That goes without saying.
If that's your reason,
- you will have decades to drink. - Yes.
Can't you divide the drinks? Do you have to drink so much now?
I can take care of myself, but she keeps nagging.
You say you take care of yourself,
but your drinking habits interfere with your studies.
I attend the lectures diligently these days.
In August, I made a boyfriend.
In October, he entered the army.
As he did that, he asked me...
to attend the lectures diligently, drink less,
and be nice to my mom.
In that case...
(She doesn't listen to her mom.)
You listen to the boy you dated for two months.
(We hope that love lasts.)
What an impressive love!
(Don't you want to listen to your mom?)
Isn't it wrong to talk to your mother that way...
when you receive financial support...
from her?
I know it's wrong,
but I couldn't help it due to stress.
What if your mom stops to support you?
Then I will probably find my way.
(She can't care less.)
(She's irresponsible.)
When I was in university,
I got a part-time job...
to pay for my own beer.
- Don't you work? - No.
I don't want to do it.
(No, I don't want to do it.)
(Hey, you're 20 years old.)
It seems you're struggling because of your daughter.
Are you struggling financially because of her?
I still have to pay more than 10,000 dollars for settlement money.
(Over 10,000 dollars for settlement money)
(What on earth happened?)
- Over 10,000 dollars? - What happened...
that the settlement came out to be that much?
Her sister chipped in,
but there's still a few thousand dollars left to pay off.
She has to pay 1,500 dollars for fine.
She has to pay it by end of this month.
I'm worried.
Are you aware of this?
I didn't know the exact amount, but I am aware of it.
- You didn't know the amount? - Not exactly.
How did you end up going to police station?
When I drink, I often get involved in fights.
(She becomes a fighter when she drinks.)
If strangers...
pick a fight with my friends,
I always step out, and it becomes serious.
Don't you think it's too much...
for your mom to bear all the debt?
It's a waste to use the money I make,
but I never thought the same for the money my family makes.
(She's endlessly selfish.)
Why don't you think it's a waste to spend your family's money?
Do you think that it's a given?
That's not it. I just don't accept them as my family.
So I took it for granted.
(Her words hurt her mother.)
(What made her that way?)
Her friends are also here.
Let's talk to them.
Hello.
I thought they were twins.
I'm sure she wasn't like that before.
You've been friends since you were young.
We were actually athletes.
- All of you? - Yes.
We used to be all very nice.
(How does that work?)
Many people are nice even if they aren't athletes.
- They're rationalizing. - What sports did you do?
We did judo, and she did fencing.
She became pretty serious...
a year ago.
When we're drinking,
if someone slightly bumps into her,
she yells at them. If they talk back,
she grabs them by collar, and she wouldn't stop.
She gives her mother hard time,
so we tell her to go home and listen to her mother,
but she never listens.
(It's frustrating.)
Your mom and friends say...
you've changed a lot over a year.
What happened?
Actually my father passed away...
in February this year.
Oh, your father passed away in February this year?
Yes.
Even if I did something wrong,
my dad would always support me and tell me I'm the best.
On the other hand, my mom...
I know that my dad focused a lot on me,
and my mom and I didn't have a lot of chances to talk.
But even if it's not my fault,
she doesn't listen to what happened,
and she tells me it's my fault.
(She began to rebel because she was always blamed.)
I understand what you mean.
Did your husband...
pass away due to illness?
For about 10 to 15 years.
- 10 to 15 years? - Goodness.
Then you took care of him?
He had hepatitis C and died of liver cirrhosis from drinking.
He suffered from liver cirrhosis?
The staff told me because it's my story.
Your daughter once sent us...
her story because she was worried...
- about her father... - She did.
- drinking too much. - Really?
- She sent the story last year. - Really?
After her dad passed away,
I sent the story.
I was scared that she would turn out...
like her dad.
(She's worried her daughter might get sick too.)
(It must be very frustrating.)
My dad was sick,
but he drank five bottles every day.
He used to drink a lot.
I sent my story in case he would get worse when he was already sick.
How many bottles do you drink now?
I drink more than my dad did.
More than five bottles.
(That means more than 5 bottles.)
(You'll get sick, dear daughter.)
Aren't you scared...
after what happened to your dad?
I am scared too,
but this year, every two months...
someone has passed away in my life.
Many of her friends died too.
- Her friends? - Yes.
Four of her friends died this year.
(4 of her friends died this year.)
In this year?
(She had to say goodbye continuously.)
(She didn't even have time to heal.)
Her dad died in the morning, and her friend died at night.
- On the same day? - Yes.
So I couldn't say anything to her.
She has a lot of pain.
Hold on. This is...
It's so shocking.
Let's talk about it one at a time.
It must've been very shocking.
It was shocking, but I had no means of relieving my stress.
When my dad passed away, I felt guilty.
- Why? - Why did you feel guilty?
A week before he passed away,
he entered my room three times.
It was just me and him at home.
When he first walked in, he said he had something to say,
but I told him to get out.
Why?
I told him I was tired and to get out.
I hated seeing him drunk.
- You hated seeing him like that. - Yes.
I told him to leave.
When he walked in the second time,
he said he wanted to see me getting married,
but it would be too hard.
(I wanted to see you getting married, but it won't be easy.)
(There wasn't much time left.)
He said he was very sick,
and I told him to leave again because I was tired.
- You didn't want to see him. - I had no idea at the time.
On the third time, he asked me to grab his hand,
but I refused it.
- You feel sorry. - It didn't finish there.
He died on the morning of Chinese New Year.
After the ritual, I had drinks and was going to go home,
then I got a call that my dad passed away.
You must've been surprised.
(Then her heart broke.)
I found out later...
that my dad was sick all night.
My family wanted to take him to the hospital,
but he refused to go.
I was the closest to my dad,
and had I been home that night,
I could've dragged him to the hospital.
I feel guilty.
You would never forget refusing him three times...
- It's pretty shocking. - until the end.
- Does it still linger... - Yes.
- refusing him three times? - Yes.
And that you didn't go home that day?
I feel like...
my family didn't take him to the hospital.
It was pretty shocking.
Since then, I was angry.
- To your family? - Yes.
- You were angry. - Yes.
I thought...
- maybe I should give up too. - I see.
(She drank to forget the pain.)
I got a call from ICU.
That she was transported to ICU.
When I got there,
she took too much sleeping pills.
(Sleeping pill overdose)
When I got there,
they were washing up everything inside her.
I was shocked.
That's why...
- you give in for her. - Yes.
I'm worried if I do anything wrong,
she'd make a wrong decision again.
Goodness.
Why did you do that? Do you remember?
At the time,
I had sleeping pills because I had trouble sleeping.
I wasn't trying to do anything bad.
- I was drunk. - Right.
- I had no idea. - She was only trying to sleep.
That's really dangerous.
Are you being honest?
You weren't thinking about...
giving up on yourself at all, right?
No.
You were only trying to sleep, right?
That's a relief...
because she says she was only trying to sleep.
After taking care of your husband for 10 years,
I'm sure you're weak both physically and mentally.
How's your condition now?
I visited my friend's hospital...
and asked her...
to let me stay for a month.
She said she can't because it's an orthopedic office.
Right, if it's an orthopedic office.
An orthopedic office...
She makes us laugh very calmly.
Goodness, ma'am.
Then my friend...
took me out for a coffee.
As I was leaving...
because I haven't been outside for a long time,
I tripped on the sidewalk and fell down.
Both my wrists were fractured.
I was actually hospitalized in that clinic.
You should always be careful before you speak.
So, you were hospitalized in your friend's hospital?
So, I was lying there...
with full casts.
Oh, my.
- I know what you mean. - My menopause is bad too.
When your dad was sick for a long time,
she took care of him all alone.
You might feel sorry...
for your mom.
Why did you close your heart to your mom?
Since I caused a lot of trouble,
my mom said, "I have three daughters including you,"
"and you're different from the other two."
"Having you is what I regret the most."
I was upset. Her older sisters never acted like her.
I didn't understand why she was living like that.
She acts just like her dad.
She drinks a lot just like him...
and says things like, "I'm hanging up. Whatever."
That hurts my feelings.
You see,
I can't help thinking that you're using that as an excuse.
You kept causing trouble and didn't call her.
You told her to hang up the phone when she called you,
so she said that because she was so upset.
If your father was alive, what would he have said...
when you caused trouble?
I think he would've said, "It's all good..."
"because you won the fight."
That's what her dad would've said.
(He would've said that.)
- You paid 10,000 dollars settle it. - "He would'v said it."
- You paid 10,000 dollars. - She forgot about it.
Who would've paid 10,000 dollars? Could it have been your husband?
He would've made me pay it.
(He shifted his responsibility to her.)
She's just like her father.
Your father must be watching you. How do you think he thinks...
about your drinking problem and your relationship with your mother?
Would he be cheering for you...
- while watching you fight? - "That's my daughter."
No.
- Right? - Yes.
Since I stayed in the dormitory in middle and high school,
I haven't spent much time with my mom since elementary school.
So I didn't have a lot of chances to talk to her either.
Right.
And then my dad passed away.
When children cause trouble,
their parents say, "I'll cut you off."
Likewise, I have thought...
of cutting her out of my life.
- I was serious about it. - I see.
Nevertheless, you lack consistency.
You think of her as your family when you need money,
but you say she doesn't feel like your family as you live separately.
If you think she's not your family, why do you ask her for help?
That doesn't make sense.
If you knew you would drift apart from you because she lived...
in the dormitory, would you have sent her to that school...
because she wanted to be an athlete?
- No. - You wouldn't have.
- Right? - Yes.
- This is how your mom feels. - He's right.
You're using your fencing skills to hurt your mother's feelings.
As you all know, I took a break.
I was so distressed, so I started drinking alone every night.
I couldn't fall asleep without drinking.
I needed at least one drink to sleep.
I thought that maybe I should get counselling.
I can stop drinking or drink less...
if I want to.
How many times a week do you drink?
2 or 3 times.
I think she needs counselling.
Why do you think so?
I think she drinks 5 or 6 times a week.
- She drinks almost every day. - Right.
I drank only three times last week.
- So you started last week. - Only last week?
"Since I'm going on Hello,"
"I should drink only three times this week."
(She drank less because of the show.)
I think you spoiled her as she's your youngest child.
It seems she didn't learn how to take responsibility for her actions.
She thinks only the nice things her dad did and comforting words...
mean to her.
Let's say you have a friend...
who always say sweet things to you, but makes you pay for the drinks.
Would you drink with that friend every day?
No.
Is this friend a good friend?
No.
You would cherish a friend who helps you out more, right?
- A friend who tells you the truth. - With sincerity.
A friend who truly cares about you. Isn't that what your mom does?
- She's sacrificing her own life. - Yes.
To help you out.
But you don't appreciate that?
You're over 20 now.
I'm asking you because you don't seem to have thought about it.
I know that now.
- You realized it just now? - Yes.
Just now?
You come to realize things like this at some point.
- And this is that moment for her. - Now?
- Okay. I'm relieved. - Thank you for realizing it.
- It's a relief. - I'm so relieved.
If you think of your mom as your friend who's on your side...
and try to communicate with her,
- I think you can fix the problem. - That's right.
All your daughter wants is warm words and comfort.
It doesn't cost you any money. Show your love...
and comfort her.
Hye Min, I'm sorry for everything I did.
I'm sorry for saying hurtful things...
and for not being on your side when I should've been.
I wanted to be a good mom,
but I couldn't because I was going through hard times,
and I was going through menopause.
I hope we could change from now on.
If it's hard for us to talk to each other,
I hope we can at least text each other.
(I want to have a conversation with my daughter.)
(She says heartfelt words with love.)
[VIU Ver] E391 Hello Counselor "Taking People for Granted" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
I love you. I'll always be on your side.
- I love you. - Oh, dear.
(I love you so much.)
(Can you be the sweet daughter you used to be?)
Tell your mom what you really feel.
I'm sorry too.
I will drink only once a week from now on.
(Are you serious?)
(You made the right decision.)
To be honest, I do love you, but...
- Do you love her? - Yes. I love her, but...
- "I love her, but..." - She's shy.
- There are many people here... - "I love her, but..."
- You couldn't express your love. - She's shy.
- I... - Do you love your mom?
- Yes, I do, but it's just... - Oh, boy.
- Just say it already. - Are you playing hard to get?
"Yes, I do, but..."
- Say, "I love you, Mom." - Just say it.
Just say the three words.
Well... All right. I love you.
(She smiles happily.)
(They got one step closer to each other.)
(He must be very happy to see this.)
I have experienced the same thing.
My father passed away, and my friends left me.
I know how you must feel. It's overwhelming.
You don't know what to do. However,
it seems that you think your mom is always strong.
- I think you do. - Your mom is not that strong.
It seems that you take it all out on her because you think she's strong.
However, when your friends left you,
did it break your heart or not?
I broke my heart.
I was just like you, but I stopped because I didn't want to...
make anyone I love feel as heartbroken as I was.
I thought it'd be better if only I was hurt.
If I made a bad decision,
someone else would go through the same pain I went through.
That's why I held back.
- You want it to end now, right? - Yes.
You have to overcome it with determination.
- You can do it. - Also, try to...
enjoy each day of your life instead of your friends.
You have to fight with yourself as hard as you can.
And know that your mom isn't as strong as you think she is.
(We hope she knows her mother is also lonely and distressed.)
Tell her what you will do...
- Make a specific promise. - from now on.
I'll try to visit you once a week.
And I'll drink only once a week as I said before.
- What about money? - Yes.
About that...
- Let's talk privately later. - Will you earn money...
(I knew it.)
What did she say?
- "Let's talk privately later." - I see.
- She wants to talk privately. - Tell her here in front of us all.
Earn money for the drinks by yourself.
- Right. - What do you say?
- Okay. - Okay?
We'll keep an eye on you.
All right. She promised to drink once a week.
If anyone who is watching this show...
sees Hye Min drinking,
ask her, "Is today the day?"
(Shaking)
Everyone around you will ask you. I would rather stop drinking.
Starting from Hae Sung, tell us if you think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry because she's still very young.
- Over time... - Yes.
Since I lived separately from my mom for about 20 years,
I realized how hard it must've been for her to raise me.
These days, seeing her alone makes me want to cry.
I think, "I should've been nicer to her."
Hye Min might regret this when she's my age.
- You think it's a worry. - I think it's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry too.
If you empathize with her, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
I wonder how many votes she got. Please show us the result.
Let's find out.
She got more than 100 votes out of 200.
- How many votes? - Of course she got over 100 votes.
Among 200 people...
(What could be the result?)
She got 160 votes. My goodness.
(160 votes)
- Yes. - Thank you, ma'am.
"Will I Ever Get Married?"
Hello. I'm a 25-year-old man who is afraid of his future.
I am living with my girlfriend with our parents' approval.
They're already living together.
I'm jealous.
"Honey, let's save money and get married soon."
"I will make you happy."
"Okay."
(He sounds coy.)
Three years have passed,
but we haven't gotten married yet, and I can't even remember...
the last time I felt close to her.
"Honey, shall we eat out today?"
"What are you talking about?"
"My babies, you must be hungry. Come here."
"Mommy will give you food to eat."
- Do they have kids too? - It's all because of...
17 cats and 2 dogs...
- that my girlfriend is raising. - 17 cats?
She has 19 pets. That's too many.
"My dear Momo."
"Shall I buy toys for you?"
"They are 300 dollars."
"My goodness, what do you think of this cat tower?"
"It's 480 dollars."
We haven't been able to save any money for a wedding.
- My goodness. - Unknowing of my worries,
my girlfriend dotes on my cats and dogs.
I am afraid I won't be able to get married.
Please stop my girlfriend.
(Please stop my girlfriend.)
What do you think?
This woman won't be able to find a man...
who is as understanding as him.
- Really? - Yes.
- I say that... - That's right.
because after all these years,
I see that one man I dated was the most decent.
Back then, I didn't realize...
how precious he is.
- I see. - If this man gets tired...
and gives up on her, it will be over.
- That's right. - Then she will end up like me.
(She makes fun of herself.)
Please tell that to the woman.
- It's a shame. - Ben, what do you think?
The story breaks my heart.
- This man isn't her priority. - I know.
Do you have any pets?
- I have a dog. - A dog.
I live with my dog.
"Do something about that dog."
What would you do if your boyfriend says that?
- She would dump him. - Listen.
- Your dog is smart, right? - Yes.
Then there won't be a problem.
Kim Han Guk has a really smart dog.
The dog sleeps on the bed,
but when he and his wife get romantic,
it takes a look at them and walks out.
It comes back five minutes later.
This man worries that he has no place...
in his girlfriend's heart because of her cats and dogs.
Please come on out.
(Who is sad to be pushed away because of their cats and dogs?)
(Park Chul Min)
(Welcome.)
He is wearing a black top, right?
I can see dog and cat fur on it.
- You are right. - Is top is covered in hair.
You can see it, right?
(It's a trace of his daily life.)
Can you tell us how many animals you have again?
We have 17 cats and 2 dogs.
I am sure you didn't have that many animals from the start.
We had 2 dogs and 1 cat at first.
Three pets are nice.
About two years ago, my girlfriend rescued an abandoned cat.
- I see. - Since then,
she began to bring home cats. Now, we have 19 pets.
We recently had a husband...
who sent a worry because his wife raises...
- 60 cats and dogs. - Yes.
- Did you see the episode? - Yes. Watching it made me wonder...
if that's what my future is going to be.
Living this way without getting married...
makes me frustrated.
Have you made any specific plans for marriage?
Both my girlfriend and I are 25 years old.
With a permission from our parents,
we began living together two years ago.
However, it has been three months since we went on a date.
She spends all of her time on the animals,
so she has no time to spare on me.
Even when I come back from work,
my girlfriend doesn't spare me a glance.
Is it already like that?
(I feel bad for him.)
Our plan was to save up 20,000 dollars a year...
and get married at the age of 28.
Right now, 90 percent of my income goes to the animals.
- That's why... - You couldn't save up money.
No, I couldn't.
Your girlfriend doesn't work.
No, she doesn't. She is taking some time off.
Animal food and necessities cost about 2,500 dollars a month.
- My goodness. - That's right.
You pay for that.
Also, hospital fees cost about 300 to 1,000 dollars a month.
- My goodness. - They are expensive.
She buys them a 300-dollar toy...
and a 480-dollar cat tower.
- It's a tower for cats! - How expensive!
- Does it cost that much? - Good ones do.
How many stories are there?
It's taller than me.
My goodness.
She also bought a 1,200-dollar vacuum cleaner...
upon hearing that it's good for a household with pets.
(It's shocking.)
(You know how I feel, right?)
So you are on Hello.
What do you want your girlfriend to do?
I want her to make serious plans for marriage...
and spend less money on the animals.
I hope she would think of me as a priority.
You want to be loved.
- Yes. - That's right.
- How cute! - His eyes are full of tears.
Let's talk to his girlfriend. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Your boyfriend visited Hello because he has a worry.
What do you think? Do you understand his worry?
I understand it a little bit,
but it can't be helped.
It can't be helped.
Even if we take marriage out of the equation,
you should put more focus on your boyfriend.
Right now, cats and dogs are your priority.
They can't take care of themselves,
but my boyfriend can.
He says I don't spend any time on him,
but I made seasoned cockles and braised hairtail...
when he wanted them.
- Really? - If he has...
that kind of an attitude,
I will have to rethink marriage.
My wife rarely makes those dishes.
- She made you tasty dishes. - Seasoned cockles.
She cooks for me sometimes when I ask her to do so.
Still, she didn't make seaweed soup or do anything...
when it was my birthday.
When she realized that one of the cats were pregnant,
she made pollack soup.
She once canceled a vacation we had planned...
because the animals got sick.
Our lives revolve around the animals,
- and it's worrisome. - It must be upsetting.
(Their lives revolve around the animals.)
The thing is,
the two of you live together...
with the goal of getting married.
How will you save up money for the wedding?
- You get a cat tower... - It was over 400 dollars.
that was way too expensive.
The thing is,
the two cats we rescued recently...
were pregnant.
They gave birth to 10 baby cats.
What will you do with them?
(They gave birth to 10 baby cats.)
Did you include them when you said you have 17 cats?
Yes.
- She startled me. - Thank goodness.
(Thank goodness.)
For a second, I thought you now have 27 cats.
Since the number of cats suddenly increased,
I decided to buy a cat tower in case they needed more space.
Will you give the baby cats up for adoption?
Right now,
I grew too attached to them.
We are capable of looking after the cats,
so I don't want to give them up for adoption.
(She doesn't want to give them up for adoption.)
I don't just bum around when I'm at home.
I upload videos of our cats and dogs on YouTube.
Do you get some money?
Yes.
We need my salary, her salary,
and income from YouTube to live comfortably.
Right now, what little she makes goes to the animals.
It has been a year...
since we went shopping.
(It has been a year since they went shopping.)
I have to think before I buy a T-shirt.
You have to think before you buy a T-shirt.
How did you come to raise 19 animals?
Ever since I was little, I liked animals.
When I see abandoned cats...
or dogs that get sold...
- at the market, - You see those animals.
I can't ignore them.
(I can't ignore them.)
Isn't it exhausting to take care of them?
It gets exhausting at times,
but looking at them...
- It melts away your exhaustion. - Yes.
- My goodness. - Love makes it possible.
Please give us your daily schedule.
I wake up and clean up their litterboxes.
Then I feed them and walk the dogs...
one by one.
It takes about two hours.
After morning,
I air and clean up the apartment.
I use the rest of my time to make videos.
(This is our home.)
Look at those cats!
Is that the cat tower?
- The house is spacious. - There are so many animals.
(Is that where they live?)
That's the 480-dollar cat tower.
- There is another one. - Is there another one?
There are a lot of animals.
(This is the veranda.)
What are those? Oh, those are litter boxes.
- Does each cat have a litter box? - 10 litter boxes?
There is a litter box per two cats.
(This is the master bedroom.)
This is the master bedroom.
Your space has been invaded.
- Yes. - My goodness.
(What are you looking at?)
(She enjoys looking at them.)
(No matter where you look,)
At least cats and dogs get along well.
(there are a lot of animals.)
(We are the ones who own this place.)
My goodness.
Where do the people stay?
There is no space.
Everyone in the audience...
and Chul Min are worried,
but his girlfriend looks at the video...
with a smile on her face.
(Embarrassed)
I asked them if they can bring some animals,
and they brought a few.
Please bring them to the stage.
- How cute! - There is a cat!
Please put them here. This one is really big.
(Hello.)
- Please sit over here. - Moa.
Moa.
My goodness. The dog is excited.
- My goodness. - The dog is really excited.
Come here, Moa.
- Moa. - Calm down.
That cat is so pretty.
What are their names? Let's start with the dog.
Moa.
(This dog is overly energetic.)
What's the dog's name?
Moa.
What's your name? Moa? Her name is Moa.
How did she come to you?
I always had her.
You always had Moa.
What about the cat in your arms?
- Kkojil. - Kkojil.
Kkojil is so cute.
(He acts cute.)
How cute!
(Everyone screams.)
(He is so cute.)
(He is incredible.)
(Kkojil is a 4-month-old male who likes to be hugged.)
He is like a character from a cartoon. How pretty!
How did Kkojil come to you?
When I found him, he was shivering under a car.
- You saved him. - He looks picturesque.
The cat your boyfriend is holding...
- is very big for a cat. - He's big.
(Is it a tiger?)
He looks more like a dog.
- He's so beautiful. - What's his name?
- Tokkaeng. - Come here.
- Tokkaeng. - Where are you going?
How did you adopt Tokkaeng?
- Tokkaeng was staying... - Tokkaeng.
in the deep corner of a bike parking space next to a food waste bin.
When we said, "Come here. We will feed you,"
he jumped into my boyfriend's arms.
So we took him home.
How did it feel when he jumped into your arms?
- My heart melted. - Your heart melted.
That must've made you want to take him home.
(I am fatally charming.)
Does Moa have a special talent?
- Yes. - Do you have a talent?
What can she do?
- She can greet you. - She can greet you.
Moa. Moa. Sit.
- Sit. - Sit.
Oh, dear.
Moa. Sit.
(She runs away.)
Moa. Sit.
(I am not in the mood for it.)
- What is your talent? - She's excited.
- Moa. - Moa.
- Where are you going? - Moa.
(She ignores her owner.)
Does she recognize you?
Moa.
- Moa. - All right.
Her talent is to roam around.
- She is very sociable. - All right.
- What is Tokkaeng's talent? - He's calm.
- He can lie on his back. - He's strong.
Show us. Show us how he lies on his back.
When you tab his bottom...
He runs away?
(She tabs him as hard as she can.)
(He just walks past her.)
- Wait. - What does he usually do?
- He usually lies down. - He lies down...
- when you tab his bottom. - He lies down.
(When did I do that?)
(None of her pets listen to her.)
It's because there are a lot of people here.
Wait!
(However)
(When Tokkaeng approaches him,)
(he gets terrified.)
What is it?
(Is he scared of animals?)
What is it?
(Oh, dear.)
(What happened?)
(Screaming)
What is it?
(He jumps on Tae Gyun's back as he screams.)
What's going on?
(1. He got terrified.)
(2. He got on Tae Gyun's back.)
(3. He rolled forward.)
What?
You surprised me. What is wrong with you?
Are you scared of cats?
I'm terrified of cats.
You surprised me.
He suddenly flew.
I'm terrified of cats.
You surprised me.
(To us, it was a romance movie "One Fine Day".)
(But to him it was a horror movie, "Dangerous Man".)
I thought the cat got bigger.
(He was really surprised.)
- Where did Tokkaeng go? - Tokkaeng.
- Tokkaeng. - We can't lose him.
- Tokkaeng. - Does he disappear?
- The cat disappeared. - I told you to hold onto him.
It disappeared because of you.
(He feels guilty.)
- My goodness. - Is he gone?
- Did she not find him? - Is he gone?
- Is he gone? - What do we do?
- Is he gone? - We should look for him.
(It's an emergency. Tokkaeng is missing.)
What do we do if we don't find him?
Spread out and look for him.
(They begin the search.)
Spread out and look for him.
This is a mess. Gosh.
He didn't leave through the back, did he?
(For the first time in Hello history, the shoot is on hold.)
(We can't resume the shoot until we find him.)
(Where did Tokkaeng go?)
(Where did you go, my friend?)
(He gets anxious.)
- We found him. - Is he there?
- Did they find him? - He's over there.
They found him. They found him.
Is he there?
(His face brightens.)
- Did they find him? - They found him.
It would be incredible if he slides down the slide.
(He makes a small wish for a better viewer rating.)
We found him.
(It would be incredible if he slides down the slide.)
- They found him. - Make sure to hold him.
- Keep holding him. - Moa.
- He's scared. - Moa.
- He's going crazy too. - Hae Sung, apologize to him.
I am sorry.
(I am very sorry.)
I am sorry.
That will do.
Hae Sung, why are you so scared of cats?
- Are you traumatized? - I...
- I am okay with dogs. - You are okay with dogs.
I'm terrified when they raise their fur and hiss.
Are you allergic to cats?
- Cute. - I am not allergic.
I am scared if their eyes.
From now on, I am allergic to Hae Sung.
He jumped over me.
By the way, it's...
Hae Sung is the one with the most special talents.
(The winner of the talent show is Hae Sung.)
(I approve it too.)
(When you come to our house,)
(we will show you.)
His future mother-in-law is here. Do you think it's a worry too?
Yes. It's a worry.
At first, I allowed them to move in together...
so that they will get married early.
But the wedding keeps getting delayed.
What do you want your daughter to do?
There are too many animals right now.
I want her to send away a lot of the animals.
My daughter is temperamental.
- Is she? - Yes.
- For example... - Did she take it from you?
(She freezes.)
(Nodding)
Your daughter is doing this.
How is she temperamental?
She can get water for herself.
But she always asks Chul Min to get her water.
When she asks, he does it without complaining.
- Chul Min treats her really well. - He's a good man.
Seeing that, I want...
my daughter to treat Chul Min well too.
You seem to understand your daughter really well.
Why don't you scold her?
- I told her many times. - She won't listen.
But she told me not to say it because Chul Min is good to her.
Don't you think you are too nice to your girlfriend?
- Do you love her too much? - I do.
(The real romantic is here.)
I envy her.
- There's no man like her. - Right.
- Right. - I envy her.
(You should reflect on yourself.)
Her friend is here.
She's too into cats and dogs...
that she doesn't come out of the house.
I can only see her when I go to her place.
When do you think is the toughest moment for her?
She was born weak.
So she often missed school.
Whenever I go to her place, there's dog and cat hair everywhere.
I am afraid that will make her even sicker.
That's what I am worried about the most.
She doesn't take care of herself at all.
She rarely eats. She eats once a day.
- Why? - She eats like that.
So she always has migraines.
She suffers from acid reflux,
irritable bowel syndrome,
low blood pressure, and anemia.
She has the bones of someone in her 60s.
- My gosh. - With that body,
she took care of the animals,
and she got rushed to the emergency room twice.
She should be resting.
- I know. - Shouldn't you be...
It seems like you should focus on taking care of yourself...
before you take care of your pets.
I've been this way since I was young,
so I am used to it. I am okay with it.
But even if you are used to it, don't you want to get better?
Why don't you eat?
I am lazy.
- How can she be lazy? - How...
(They can't understand her.)
But I work out.
I walk them every day.
I walk nearly two hours a day.
While walking,
- she hurt her ankle. - Her bones...
- She's got bones of a 60-year-old. - Her bones are weak.
Because of the animals,
she suffers from depression and insomnia.
Isn't she happy because of them?
- How can she be depressed? - Depressed?
She once rescued a kitty that was very sick.
Trying to save the kitty, she didn't sleep for two months.
In the end, the kitty died.
This happened several times.
- That's why... - She got hurt a lot.
She is taking medicine for depression,
and she takes sleeping pills too.
I know you like each other.
But if you can't communicate...
and if you keep acting stubborn,
one day your boyfriend might fall out of love.
Aren't you worried about that?
Not at all.
Do you think he will always be there for you?
Yes.
(Does she think he will always be there for her?)
Aren't you taking it for granted?
The problem is that you take it for granted.
Let's say your boyfriend is really into something else.
He doesn't care about you or the animals.
Even when you ask for water, he tells you to get it for yourself.
How would you feel?
I would hit him from the back.
Why would you? You do whatever you want to do.
You do what you want to do. He can do what he likes to do.
But he has to listen to me.
He came out here because he wants you to listen to him.
(He wants her to listen to him.)
What do you want from your girlfriend?
What do I want from her?
Until we settle down, I want her to stop rescuing animals.
I want her to care about her body as much as she cares about the animals.
Just like other couples, I want to forget about the animals...
once a month and go on a date.
(He wants them to forget about the animals once a month.)
He wants to go on a nice date with you once a month.
(It's not an unreasonable request.)
I don't like leaving the house.
- Is it because of the animals? - Yes.
Are you not at all considering to send them away?
- I can't send them away. - Not even one?
Not even one.
Can you not live without them?
Even if you ask me to send just one away,
there is not one I can let go.
(She refuses to make a compromise.)
I used to have cats before.
When I was moving to an apartment, I couldn't keep them.
So I found a family that will take good care of them.
I went to their house and checked everything.
Then I let them go, crying.
After a year, I went to their house. Their names were Byeol and Dal.
They lived in a remote place in Jangheung.
I went to see them, and I could see them from afar.
Crying, I shouted, "Byeol! Dal!" But they looked at me...
(Who are you?)
They just went about their ways.
(No way.)
- They were really happy. - Right.
They can be happy even without you.
You should think about that and have courage.
(They can be happy even without you.)
Are you willing to live...
the rest of your life with 19 animals?
I think this is the limit.
- This is your limit. - I can't tolerate more.
What if she brings one more?
She can't.
I don't think I can do it anymore.
You don't think you can tolerate it.
Raising this many animals wasn't your dream, was it?
It was your girlfriend's dream, so you became supportive. Right?
Right. At first.
It's like this.
If you want your relationship to last,
your life shouldn't slant toward one person. It should be balanced.
I think it would be...
very difficult for your relationship to last...
if only one of you gets what you want.
It's not like your boyfriend is asking a lot.
He wants to go on a date with you once a month.
He only wants...
something really small.
And you said, "I can't leave home." How can you be so arrogant?
Right.
Aren't you taking advantage of him?
You can't hurt someone to love your animals.
You give love to your animals, but you don't give love to him.
(Why don't you give love to a human?)
She's telling you this because she's worried.
Let's say he continues to live with you.
But he realizes that it's not what he expected.
If things don't change and stays the same...
"What do you say?"
"Do you think you can live with her for tens of years?"
"I know she is a kind girl, but I don't think you're meant to be."
I think I would say that if I was his parents. I really would.
(That's how his parents may feel.)
(I want our relationship to continue.)
Let's say you get your time alone.
What do you want to do when you get time?
I want to go on a trip to Japan.
- You want to go on a trip to Japan. - Yes.
I heard there is a village with a lot of cats.
- Is it for your girlfriend? - He's going there for him.
- He wants to go to the cat village. - No way.
He loves her so much...
that he wants to do something that she would enjoy.
Where do you really want to go?
(Where does he really want to go?)
I want to go to a comic book cafe and just read comic books.
Do you want to go there and read comic books while lying down?
- Yes. - You can eat ramyeon.
You can eat ramyeon and order in food.
- All day. - That's small.
- You want to be with her all day. - Just the two of them.
Just the two of them.
(Did you hear that? You should be grateful.)
- She doesn't look happy. - That's not even much to ask.
He doesn't want something big.
Can't you make time for him?
Just think of him as a big cat.
He is a talking cat.
Just think of him as a cat that works.
We can go to the comic book cafe for about six hours.
But we have to feed the animals.
(The problem is that she has to feed the animals.)
Will you live like this for the rest of your life?
- Will you continue this? - Will you?
(Will she live the rest of her life like this?)
(I am getting fed up too.)
By the way,
so many people take things for granted...
- Right. - and lose what's really precious.
- I've seen it happen so many times. - It's sad.
I heard that just recently.
Most of the stories we get are about that.
You end up losing what's most precious to you.
When you see his sweater,
you can tell how considerate he is. His sweater is covered in fur.
(His girlfriend wouldn't know.)
- This shows how considerate he is. - By the way...
(Oh, dear.)
But did he have to wear black?
- It was his strategy. - He chose his outfit well.
- Let's vote. - She won't answer.
(Guest vote)
Cheer up.
I think it's a worry.
I think it's a serious worry.
- Is it a worry? - It's not right to comment...
on someone else's relationship.
But this is a worry without a doubt.
Don't regret it later. Treat him better.
I also think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up. Can you...
honestly tell your boyfriend how you feel?
From now on, we should...
go out for dinner sometimes.
Let's try to spend...
more time by ourselves.
Right. You forgot to make a promise.
He said he won't be able to handle one more animal.
I agree with him on that.
Until we settle down,
I won't rescue any more animals.
- "Until you settle down". - What does that mean?
You should say this is final.
And you should keep the promise.
- She won't give up anything. - My goodness.
She's unbelievable.
Please vote again.
Those who haven't pressed the button...
(I want to press the button.)
Tell him you thank him and you love him.
Right. Tell him how much you love him.
It's too embarrassing though.
If you don't say it, he wouldn't know.
(She finds it awkward because she's not used to it.)
Honey, I love you.
I love you.
(He blushes.)
He loves it.
My gosh.
Gosh. It's embarrassing.
(You hopeless romantic.)
Let's check the result.
"Will I Ever Get Married?" Let's check the result.
It's over 100.
121?
To beat the first one,
- My gosh. - he needs to get 161.
To get that many votes, he has to drink 4 to 5 bottles of soju,
fight a cat owner, and pay him 10,000 dollars.
We don't know yet. Is it 121?
How many votes did he get?
(With 1 more vote, he wins.)
- See? - It's serious.
- It's this serious. - He won.
(No way.)
"I Refuse to Be Filmed".
Hello. I am a housewife...
in her 30s who has been married for 2 years.
Usually, they say photos are what remain from life.
My husband always films a video whether we are eating...
or walking on a street.
The problem is this.
"Honey. Honey. I found out the way to instantly become successful."
"I think we will soon be rich."
"I am going to be a YouTuber."
(He decides to become a YouTuber.)
I am going to become really successful.
He shoots videos all the time.
"Honey, film me playing the piano."
(Do, re,)
(mi, fa)
At that moment, the next door neighbor...
Knock, knock, knock.
You are a lady.
Knock, knock, knock.
"It's 12 midnight. Let me sleep."
Are we in Gyeongsang Province?
(Are they in Gyeongsang Province?)
"Let me sleep."
I am too embarrassed to see my neighbors.
I can't even hold my head up.
Besides, my husband...
"Honey, play the violin. I will film you."
"Make some gimbap. I will film you."
- Why doesn't he do it alone? - Right.
Why does he use me?
He even did this.
"Honey,"
"can I take a video of you breastfeeding?"
(He wanted to film her breastfeeding.)
No way.
- Oh, my goodness. - No way.
That's...
(What's wrong with him?)
- He's mad. - That's over the line.
"Can I take a video of you breastfeeding?"
- You can't. - You can't.
- You can't do that. - "It's such a sublime video."
- My goodness. - "I think it will go viral."
(My goodness.)
His obsession with video filming...
is going over the line.
Please stop my husband.
She sent us the letter.
(This is a worry.)
- He went over the line. - Today... Yes.
Have you been obsessed with anything?
When I got into social media,
I got really addicted to it.
- Yes. It was so fun. - You must understand him then.
I understand him a little.
Even filming his wife breast-feeding?
It's fine if he uploads his own breasts.
He should upload his own breasts.
Of course. His wife's body is not his own.
That's bad.
Recently, I started going on a diet,
and I packed my own lunch.
- I like cooking. - That's amazing.
- Did you pack lunch today? - No.
I didn't get to pack it today.
Just know that she will take it if she finds it.
Just tell her you ate it all.
(She's flustered.)
Don't be scared.
- How about Kei? - I love jokbal.
- Kei... - I love jokbal so much.
I didn't ask you what you like.
(She didn't ask what Kei likes.)
- She's addicted to jokbal. - She's addicted to jokbal.
I love sweet and warm jokbal.
I haven't been able to eat it, and it's been really tough.
I can eat it all week long.
Are you reminded of jokbal when you see people's feet?
(She sticks out her foot.)
Why did you stick out your foot?
(This is so funny.)
A lady who is worried about her husband who is...
obsessed with YouTube sent us a letter.
Let's bring her in. Please come on in.
(Who is worried about her husband who always films videos?)
(Park Kyung Eun)
(It's nice to meet you.)
How did your husband get to fall for YouTube?
My husband has always liked...
filming videos and keeping them.
- He has always liked it. - Yes. He has always liked...
taking photos too.
Three months ago, he got obsessed with YouTube.
I don't know where he heard this.
But he heard that he can earn a lot of money...
if his channel becomes popular.
Right. If you get a million or two million subscribers.
It's been three months since he started.
How many subscribers does he have?
He has 400.
- 400? - Yes.
He's got more than me.
- It's a hobby. - He started it in 2013.
- He started early. - It's been a long time.
But he's been using it to post videos for personal use.
Right now, he wants to make money out of it.
- He wants to earn a fortune. - Yes.
I am getting a little suspicious here.
Are you here today to help him get more subscribers?
That's not it.
It's just that he's going too far.
Our daily life is being affected.
What kind of things does he do?
He even films me while I'm not aware of it.
While you're not aware of it?
Yes. He films me while I'm sleeping...
or grinding my teeth.
Why does he film his wife so much?
- Exactly. - Why is that?
It's to get more views and subscribers.
Recently, he even tried to film me while I was breastfeeding.
- Exactly. - That's not okay.
We were so shocked. Is it true?
Yes. He wanted to film it...
and upload it.
- Did he film it? - No, not yet.
I refused to be filmed.
Because he was pushing me, it started to bother me.
I think he's going too far.
Recently, he even entered "National Singing Contest".
- He did? - Just to film it?
Yes, to film it.
His goal was not to win the contest?
It was to film it?
He wanted to film the audition process.
Is he a good singer?
Not really.
As I can play the violin, he brought me with him.
- You played the violin for him? - Yes.
- My goodness. - He should do it on his own.
- Why does he rely on his wife? - He can't do anything on his own.
Exactly.
Her husband, who wants to make money by uploading videos, is here.
He doesn't really look like the greedy type.
Let's talk to him. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello. Nice to meet you.
Are you here today to promote your channel?
I'm here to explain myself.
I can't really understand why my wife is worried.
If I get a lot of subscribers,
it'd benefit both of us, but she doesn't seem to understand it.
How did you first start it?
At first, I started filming my wife and our child...
to show the videos to our child...
when he grows up.
But then I heard that you could actually make money too.
If a certain type of videos seem to attract more views,
I'll focus on those.
Right now, I'm just trying out different things.
Do you think your videos are...
likely to attract many viewers?
My wife talked about how I film her without her knowing it,
but I have to do that to make the videos look authentic.
(It makes the videos look authentic.)
(His intention is shocking.)
She shouldn't be aware of it.
- He has a problem. - He had an intention.
How could you film your wife without her knowing it?
She looked so beautiful to me when she was breastfeeding.
So I suggested that I film her from behind.
We could show the video to our child later too.
That was my intention.
But that wasn't your only intention.
You had other intentions too, right?
You wanted to upload the videos online too, didn't you?
- Well... - Your wife...
I did.
Did you enter "National Singing Contest" for your channel too?
That was part of the intention.
But my wife seemed to have fun too.
He says you had fun too.
- Are you hiding something? - She had to have fun.
There were so many talented people There.
Everyone was so worked up, so it definitely affected me.
I did my best.
You want to see what happened, right?
(What's the truth?)
(Preliminary Contest)
That's how the preliminaries are done.
- Oh, my. - What's that?
(The wife sings first.)
(Dancing)
The wife seems to be having more fun.
Holding your violin...
(My lost first love is falling too)
(Train whistle)
(She definitely enjoyed it.)
- She's definitely enjoying it. - She's even playing the violin.
(She plays the violin.)
(Immersed)
You're accompanying him?
Oh, my.
She entered the contest for her own sake.
(Enthusiastic)
(The situation reverses.)
- You enjoyed it. - The situation has reversed.
Ms. Park.
I got a bit carried away.
From that video,
it looks like you're the one who is using your husband.
(He mimics the wife.)
(I got carried away.)
In what other ways were you used by your husband?
Our child likes to swing his arms.
And my husband put his face close to his arms and said,
"Punch me."
He made it look like our child hit him...
and titled the video, "Child Punches His Dad".
He made it into a thumbnail.
He wants to make the thumbnail intriguing.
Exactly.
He's too obsessed with the number of views and subscribers.
That's why he even uploads sensitive videos.
Are you even using your child to get more views?
That's not it.
I adore my son.
I want to show him off.
If I can even make money from it, it'd be great.
(Stop talking about money.)
If I really wanted to make the thumbnail intriguing,
I had even worse ideas.
Like what?
(Let's hear it.)
For example, "Will a five-month-old's fist..."
"fit his dad's nostril?"
(What?)
Wouldn't that be so interesting?
I don't think his channel will be successful.
You want to see some of his videos, right?
- Yes. - Let's see them.
I'm curious.
(She's already embarrassed.)
- His lullaby... - "His lullaby..."
- makes everyone... - Isn't that his wife's voice?
- Is that you? - Yes.
(The narration was recorded by the wife.)
(Everyone falls asleep.)
He films me without telling me like this.
- You weren't aware of it? - No.
I was in deep sleep.
(The strange language...)
(makes me fall into deeper sleep.)
You even recorded the narration.
(Before the lullaby)
Oh, my.
(To the wife's embarrassment, it didn't get many views.)
- Oh, how adorable. - How cute.
He's sleeping.
- It's ASMR. - It's ASMR.
(Ji Su is burping.)
He's burping.
How cute.
(He even uploads videos of his son's daily life.)
(It's his wife again.)
His wife appears a lot.
Is it you?
Oh, my.
Is it you?
(He even inserted an animation movie.)
He did a good job editing it.
(He must work hard.)
The content is not interesting enough,
but the editing is pretty nice.
(Proud)
- It seems like you're enjoying it. - Right.
Otherwise, you would have refused to record it.
Are you sure this isn't part of the plan?
- Never. - Never?
At first, I helped him...
in the hope that it'd help us financially.
But he started to follow me around all day.
- He bothers you. - It's affecting my daily life.
He comes home around 6pm.
But he looks at his phone even in the bathroom...
or while eating.
He stays up editing the videos until 5am.
On Saturdays, all he does is sleep.
Sometimes, he sleeps until 7pm.
- His life is being affected a lot. - He's sleep-deprived.
I'm not really tired, though. I find it so fun.
It's so fun to edit videos...
and see my subscribers' reactions. It relieves my stress.
(But I'm stressed out.)
What about house chores?
My husband used to be very kind.
But he completely changed after starting to upload videos.
All he does is talk. He never helps me out.
Once, my wrists ached, so I asked him...
to wash our child.
He must be stronger than you.
All he did was put some nice-smelling lotion on him.
He didn't wash the baby for four days.
He just put some lotion on him?
- Yes. - How did you find out?
We took our baby to a friends gathering,
and one friend said it seemed like our baby wasn't washed.
His nails were dirty,
and he had grime on his body.
- That's so cute. - I had trusted my husband.
What do you think? You've changed so much.
If you wash the baby too often,
- it'll irritate the baby's skin. - What?
- Especially in the winter. - Do you wash the baby often?
(He can't say anything.)
Kind of.
To put the baby to sleep, you should pat him gently.
One day, I found my husband looking at his phone in a dark room,
tapping the baby carelessly.
- Also, it's easy to drop the phone. - Exactly.
Once, he actually dropped his phone and gave the baby a bump.
- He gave the baby a bump? - Yes.
So I bought a ring holder.
You're not saying you'll stop looking at your phone.
(Do videos come before your family?)
I had a colleague who was obsessed with...
self-improvement.
He'd never waste any time even at home.
He even cut back on sleep to study,
read, and monitor TV shows.
But when we were shooting, he wasn't doing a good job.
He's not good at his job.
You need to get your priorities right.
You're too busy filming videos to spend time with your family.
Because I can't spend much time with my family,
I entered "National Singing Contest" with my wife.
Recently,
we started going to shopping centers more often.
Our baby has gotten a bit older now.
We did go to a shopping center recently.
It was to film a video.
- He filmed a video? - Yes, the whole time.
- While picking out things... - It must be so uncomfortable.
I wanted to buy some clothes for our baby. While filming,
my husband said I could buy them.
But after turning off the camera, he said we should buy it next time.
- You didn't buy it? - No.
I was so sad.
He cares more about his videos than his family.
I have a feeling you two fight a lot.
Not long ago, he said something insensitive to me.
He said something insensitive?
What did he say?
He said that his acquaintance's wife...
has a job, but she looks after 2 or 3 children...
and does house chores perfectly.
- He kept comparing me to her. - Gosh.
He shouldn't have done it.
I felt like my blood was boiling.
You should've gone to the court instead of this show.
Sir, is it true?
Yes, it's true.
I'd like to use this opportunity...
to apologize to my wife for saying such a thing.
I'm sorry. However, you compared me to someone else first.
- Did she? - Why didn't you tell us that?
- My wife... - My goodness.
- What did she say? - My wife said...
that other women's husbands...
make a lot of money without posting videos on a video sharing website.
- So she did that too. - "Why do you always do that?"
My wife became very sensitive...
after giving birth.
We're living in a 79㎡ apartment.
But she keeps saying it's too small, so we should move to a bigger house.
She also said we need a bigger car,
so we can drive with the kids more comfortably.
When she says things like that, I get stressed out.
- It hurts your pride too. - That's right.
That's not all. My wife likes online shopping,
so we receive 3 or 4 parcels every day.
Our neighbor once asked if we were going to move out.
- Really? - Since I have a baby,
it's not easy for me to step out.
I mostly buy things that my baby needs.
- You don't shop for yourself? - Never.
I buy diapers, formula,
and other things for my baby.
So I spend more money than before.
My wife likes eating food,
so as far as I know, she buys food mostly.
Why do we live?
We all live to eat.
But she buys too much food.
What kind of food does she buy?
- What does she buy? - Sundae, omasum,
- and frozen pizza. - Does she buy them online?
Yes. It looks like it's possible to buy them online.
It's because she can't go out because of her baby.
- But you eat the food you buy. - You buy food you crave.
- You eat all the food. - My husband eats it all.
(My husband eats it all.)
He eats until 5am.
When I wake up in the morning, I see the fridge is empty.
My goodness.
(He shouldn't have brought it up.)
Not long ago...
I saved some money...
to buy baby products.
I saved between 2,000 and 3,000 dollars.
He invested the money I saved in cryptocurrency.
(He invested it in cryptocurrency.)
He has only a third of it left now.
He lost the rest.
- Why did you do that? - I can't believe this.
I thought you were obsessed only with making videos.
Well, I invested a little in cryptocurrency last year.
Its price kept dropping and still is.
And whenever it went down, I bought a little more.
It's called scale trading.
However, I don't post my videos on the website...
to cover the loss from the investment.
I bet you didn't invest only in cryptocurrency.
Don't you invest in other things...
- because of what others said? - I think he'd swayed easily.
Yes. I invested in stocks for a while...
and bought lottery tickets.
(His personality is the problem.)
There are things in this world that confuse us.
The lottery is one of them.
They say that you're more likely to get struck by lightning...
than winning a lottery.
What confuses us is the fact that there's a person...
who actually wins the lottery.
In fact, I started my own channel two years ago,
and I have 6,500 subscribers now.
However, I can't earn a penny by doing that.
I'm just saying... It's not profitable.
Besides, you started it too late.
(There's nothing easy in life.)
Do you simply hate...
that your husband makes videos?
First of all, we don't talk to each other often...
since he looks at his phone all the time.
I want him to look after our baby and do some house chores.
Honestly, I want him to stop running his channel.
(I want him to stop making videos.)
Sir, what do you think?
Can you listen to your wife this time?
I have no intention of quitting my channel.
(I won't quit.)
(He speaks firmly.)
Even if it's not profitable,
I'm satisfied with the fact that I can keep those videos forever.
However, you make videos...
- of your wife or your baby. - Yes.
- You need her consent. - What if she doesn't cooperate?
- She has her own life. - when it comes to that matter...
- Must she understand you? - We're family, right?
- Yes. - I want her to understand me.
Why must she understand you just because you're her family?
Then why can't you do as she wants...
when she's your family?
- Exactly. - Your wife hates it.
- It applies to you both. - Right.
I think you're mistaken.
I host the show "LAN Life",
so I meet many creators...
including Great Library, Yumdaeng, and Sof.
But they don't fake it like you do.
Viewers are amazing.
I'm sure that everyone in the audience can tell...
whether you make the videos to make money...
or you do it with sincerity and passion.
They can tell if you fake it.
Your purpose of making videos shouldn't be making money.
You can never make it a big hit overnight.
What makes me sad...
is that you seem to take life too easy...
and think people are easy to fool.
(Depressed)
To be honest, since I play the piano,
and my wife plays the violin,
I want her to perform with me.
No. What we're saying is...
(He can't go on.)
It's nice to perform together,
but you film it and post the video.
Do you think that content will attract...
a lot of subscribers?
I can upload unlimited videos on the website.
That's why I post my videos.
It'd be nice if I make a profit, but I wouldn't mind even if I don't.
(He dreams of a fortune while saying his intent is to save memories.)
I want to run my channel for the rest of my life.
(I want to do it forever.)
(What have we been talking about?)
As long as it helps me relieve stress...
Then try to change the way you do it,
- Will you stop filming your wife? - so you won't cause her harm.
- Don't film your wife... - I still want her...
to perform music with me.
Why do you want to do that?
Why must you post the videos?
Since we perform together, I want to post the video...
But your wife doesn't want to.
What would you do if she doesn't want to?
If my wife... I mean, when it comes to the performance video...
He's so stubborn.
(Sighing in annoyance)
Gosh. This is so frustrating.
Do you know why they don't understand you?
It's because you're not being honest.
- That's right. - You're not telling us...
why you really post your videos.
You don't post your videos with pure intentions.
It's true that there's nothing else he does...
to relieve stress.
He doesn't drink or smoke...
- Drink a little instead. - You should drink instead.
Drink a little instead.
You should drink instead.
Let's start with Mi Joo. Do you think it's a worry?
I think it's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry.
I'm not sure if I should say anything about a couple.
But I think it's a worry.
Most of all, her husband is too stubborn.
(He's too stubborn.)
I'm feeling so frustrated.
You can imagine how frustrated she must be feeling.
It also seems to me that he wants to become rich overnight.
You may become penniless overnight while trying to get rich overnight.
(You might become penniless overnight.)
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Sir, tell your wife what you have to say.
Kyung Eun, you know that I love you very much, right?
While listening to you, I realized that I wasn't considerate of you.
I am very sorry for that.
I'm doing this to save good memories.
So I want you to try to understand me...
and cheer for me.
The audience normally applaud at this moment.
They were confused...
because he went back to the starting point.
"He wants her to cheer for him?"
"I Refuse to Be Filmed".
Please show us the result.
It's over 100.
(How many votes did she get?)
How many votes?
130 votes.
(130 votes)
"Will I Ever Get Married?" is this week's winner.
The winner will receive prize money.
Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free,
and until the day Hae Sung...
feeds stray cats.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
(Hello will continue to counsel you.)
("RBB(Really Bad Boy)" by Red Velvet)